Bluidkiti's Alcohol and Drug Addictions Recovery Help/Support Forums - View Single Post

MajestyJo · 01-30-2016, 09:29 PM

The Weight Of Objects
Clearing Your Space For Change

In life, we tend to have an easier time acquiring possessions than
we do getting rid of them. Just as we harbor emotional baggage that
is difficult to let go of, our lives can tend to be filled with
material objects that we may feel compelled to hold on to. Most
people are not conscious of how much they own and how many of their
possessions are no longer adding value to their life. They fiercely
hold on to material objects because this makes them feel secure or
comfortable. While it's true that the ownership of "stuff" can make
you feel good for awhile, it seldom satisfies the deep inner
longings that nearly everyone has for fulfillment and satisfaction.
It is only when we are ready to let go of our baggage and be
vulnerable that it becomes possible to recognize the emotional hold
that our possessions can have on us.

It's not uncommon to hold on to material objects because we are
attached to them or fear the empty spaces that will remain if we get
rid of them. Giving away the souvenirs from a beloved voyage may
feel like we are erasing the memory of that time in our life. We may
also worry that our loved ones will feel hurt if we don't keep the
gifts they've given us. It's easy to convince ourselves that unused
possessions might come in handy someday or that parting with them
will cause you emotional pain. However, when your personal space is
filled with objects, there is no room for anything new to enter and
stay in your life. Your collection of belongings may "protect" you
from the uncertainties of an unknown future while keeping you stuck
in the past. Holding on to unnecessary possessions often goes hand
in hand with holding on to pain, anger, and resentment, and letting
go of your material possessions may help you release emotional
baggage.

When you make a conscious decision to fill your personal space with
only the objects that you need or bring you joy, your energy level
will soar. Clearing your personal space can lead to mental clarity
and an improved memory. As you learn to have a more practical and
temporary relationship to objects, positive changes will happen, and
you'll have space to create the life that you desire.

What do you think?
Discuss this article and share your opinion

01-30-2016, 09:29 PM	#192
MajestyJo Super Moderator Join Date: Aug 2013 Location: Hamilton, ON Posts: 25,085	The Weight Of Objects Clearing Your Space For Change In life, we tend to have an easier time acquiring possessions than we do getting rid of them. Just as we harbor emotional baggage that is difficult to let go of, our lives can tend to be filled with material objects that we may feel compelled to hold on to. Most people are not conscious of how much they own and how many of their possessions are no longer adding value to their life. They fiercely hold on to material objects because this makes them feel secure or comfortable. While it's true that the ownership of "stuff" can make you feel good for awhile, it seldom satisfies the deep inner longings that nearly everyone has for fulfillment and satisfaction. It is only when we are ready to let go of our baggage and be vulnerable that it becomes possible to recognize the emotional hold that our possessions can have on us. It's not uncommon to hold on to material objects because we are attached to them or fear the empty spaces that will remain if we get rid of them. Giving away the souvenirs from a beloved voyage may feel like we are erasing the memory of that time in our life. We may also worry that our loved ones will feel hurt if we don't keep the gifts they've given us. It's easy to convince ourselves that unused possessions might come in handy someday or that parting with them will cause you emotional pain. However, when your personal space is filled with objects, there is no room for anything new to enter and stay in your life. Your collection of belongings may "protect" you from the uncertainties of an unknown future while keeping you stuck in the past. Holding on to unnecessary possessions often goes hand in hand with holding on to pain, anger, and resentment, and letting go of your material possessions may help you release emotional baggage. When you make a conscious decision to fill your personal space with only the objects that you need or bring you joy, your energy level will soar. Clearing your personal space can lead to mental clarity and an improved memory. As you learn to have a more practical and temporary relationship to objects, positive changes will happen, and you'll have space to create the life that you desire. What do you think? Discuss this article and share your opinion __________________ Love always, Jo I share because I care.