Sounds like setting boundaries, for both parties. My sponsor had to show me how to set them. With my son, I have to keep resetting them and over the years, they needed to give me more space.
Most sponsors I have had in the past have said, they never called their sponsees. Ended up three of them did. I called my sponsees, if I have thought of them 3 times, or I have not heard from them for 3 days, I call. It does not matter if they have relapsed, I just need to show that I care.
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Love always,
Jo
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