H.O.W. it is done, but while your doing it, don't take yourself so seriously according to Tradition 4. A once heard a lady say she had to learn and apply the Traditions in order to live long enough to work the Steps.
There is no race to be run and we have to find what works for us. We listen to others and take it under perusal and by trial and error and with the guidance of OUR Higher Power.
You are given a second chance at life. How you live it is up to you. You are given freedom of choice. Why not enjoy the journey. Sobriety is a journey and an experience with no destination, other than to stay clean and sober one day at a time.
